90 Day Fiancé: Every Michael Ilesanmi Cheating Scandal Explained (Who Did He Leave Angela For?)

90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? star Michael Ilesanmi has cheated on Angela Deem, not once but multiple times, and is rumored to already have a secret girlfriend in the U.S. after leaving Angela. Michael from Lagos in Nigeria was barely 30 when he approached the then 50-year-old Angela on social media. Angela thought that life was too short and decided she wanted to quickly marry Michael and bring him to the U.S. While she always suspected that Michael was a scammer, she also loved Michael so much that she couldn’t let go of him.

Still, Angela treated Michael so badly throughout the relationship that her leaving him was inevitable. The fact that he did it after coming to the U.S. is what makes him look suspicious. Michael could have split with Angela while he was still in Nigeria, but he chose to hang on and “disappeared” from her house in Georgia after living together with Angela for two months.Michael supposedly has a new family in Texas and there are rumors that he’s also dating someone new. Michael was never interested in Angela, which is why he cheated on her repeatedly.

How Did Michael Meet Angela?

Michael messaged Angela on Facebook. He had written, “Hello. You look pretty today, good morning.” Angela didn’t know who he was but thought he looked “cute” in his profile picture. Michael was 30 years old at the time but had told Angela he was 40 at first. She had never dated anyone this young, but she wanted to “go for it.” Angela had thought to herself “What the hell?” when she found out he was from Nigeria. It was never in her plans. According to Angela, Nigeria is “supposed to be known as the most scamming capital of the world.”

Michael and Angela were talking 20–30 times a day. She read out a message, “Good morning hon! I was looking at your smile, you have such a pretty smile,” which Michael had sent. Michael had told Angela he had never felt love like this before within a few months of talking. It’s possible that Angela was just one of the women that Michael had sent such messages to. Michael could have been DM-ing multiple American women in hopes that someone would fall for his charms and Angela had seen there were a lot of women on his Facebook friend list.

Michael’s “THE BJ” Incident Is Well-Known

Angela often argued with Michael about the many young and more beautiful women he followed on Facebook. One of the reasons why she couldn’t trust him was because of a “painful” secret she hadn’t told anyone about. Angela had brought up a time when Michael had been unfaithful early in their relationship. “You say a girl in your neighborhood didn’t have no ride, didn’t have no money,” she said to Michael and added that Michael had accepted oral sex from the woman as a “payment.” Michael told the producers, “I did the BJ. You know, for real.”

Angela Caught Michael Looking At A Dancer

Michael had managed to convince Angela that he hadn’t done anything else with any woman “apart from the BJ.”, Michael could have easily gotten away without telling Angela the BJ incident had happened. Knowing how secretive he was, he may have been doing other things behind Angela’s back too. Angela and Michael were at a club in Nigeria for her bachelorette when she noticed Michael looking in the direction of a fully clothed dancing woman. It took seconds for Angela to lose her temper, and she’d stormed out of the club announcing she was going to cancel the wedding.

Michael Was In A “Virtual” Relationship With American Woman

Michael’s next cheating scandal was exposed during Happily Ever After? season 7 that was filmed in 2022. Angela had made Michael delete his Instagram, so women couldn’t DM him. Michael still went ahead and made an account. His excuse was that he could make some extra money in Nigeria by working as an influencer. However, Angela feared that Michael was using it to talk to women. Moreover, Michael also asked Angela to send him $5000, after which he would take down his Instagram. Angela and Michael decided to patch up after the incident and Michael promised to delete the profile.

Angela said she was happy with Michael after leaving Nigeria when a friend alerted her about Michael’s infidelity. The friend had sent “texts” to Angela which showed Michael chatting with a 31-year-old American woman he’d met on Instagram. They had been in communication for two months and Angela had access to a voice note her husband had sent to the woman. Michael was telling the woman to pick up the phone saying things like, “Baby I love you.” Michael was talking to the woman while Angela was in Nigeria and even after Angela came back to the U.S.

Angela Suspected Michael’s Involvement With “Cheetah”

Angela wasn’t done suspecting Michael even after he came to the U.S. He’d “jumped” when she walked in on him while he was using his phone. Angela wanted to stop Michael from getting too involved with her family if he was in America “for himself.” She met a private investigator to find out if Michael was “trying to get his ducks together” and leave her or if he was in love. Meanwhile, Angela said Michael had told her about “Paradise Men” having only male members. However, there was a girl called “Cheetah” in the group whom he was helping.

Michael Could Already Have A New Girlfriend In America

He Hasn’t Revealed With Whom He Is Living In Alvin, Texas

Michael told Angela about “Cheetah” himself. He had been chatting with Cheetah helping her and her husband so they could get a visa and come to America. While more information about Cheetah would be revealed once the detective makes an appearance at the Tell All, Michael hinted at him having a new girlfriend named Megann in the U.S. by reposting a Story on Instagram which said, “Only Michael and i Know what we have endured allow us to enjoy ourselves.” The woman later claimed that she had “never spoken to Michael” and wasn’t in a relationship with him (via Shabooty.)

How Michael Has Reacted To His Cheating Scandals

90sipsofrealitea reposted a clip from Michael’s TikTok live where he said that he did not “have any girlfriend” and fans should leave the woman, Megann, alone. Michael revealed that Angela had DM’d Megann thinking she was Michael’s girlfriend “which she is not.” Michael had admitted to cheating on Angela on the 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? season 7 Tell All. He refused to apologize but kept telling Angela it was “okay.” He’d said that despite his infidelity he still loved his wife and “nobody can come in between” them.